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We're back on "Larry King Live"
with John F. Kennedy Jr.

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It's very good to be
the son of a legend.

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Uh, I mean, it's --
it's complicated.

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Gillon: I think John,
his entire life was spent

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trying to find out who he was.

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And the one constant
was his desire

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not to be treated
as if he were his father's son.

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Couric: You haven't
given up the notion

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of maybe going
into politics.

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Maybe, maybe not.

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Oh, come on, John.
[ Laughs ]

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There was a pressure --
"You're a Kennedy.

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You're going to be successful.

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You're going to be
well-respected.

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John was just, like, a little
bit more of a free spirit.

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Politics isn't dry.
It isn't dull.

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He just did things differently.

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Jackie had raised John
to be media-savvy.

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There was no shucking off
of this celebrity.

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Man: Can I please get
a couple shots, John, please?

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You've kind of grown up
being this public figure

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even before you knew
you were a public figure.

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-Come on, John.
-Oh [bleep]

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Sometimes I wish
it wasn't always that way.

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Rigueur: He will forever be
that little boy,

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even as he is jaunting
through New York City,

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even as he is struggling
to pass the bar,

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even as he is launching his own
political career and magazine.

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Ladies and gentlemen,
meet George.

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[ Cheers and applause ]

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Woman: Being John Kennedy Jr.
sets the bar so high.

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And I think that there's
less room for error.

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Man: Oh, come on.
[ Laughter ]

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It's obviously
a very difficult job.

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Gillon: That was John's
lifelong struggle --

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to not be crushed by the burdens
that were placed on him.

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Woman: Are we going to see you
go into politics?

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It's something that,
you know, you never say never.

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And it's obviously a source
of interest.

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Radziwill: Being in that family,
people like to think it's,

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you know, it's like good and bad
and black and white.

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Reporter: John Kennedy managed
to keep his wedding

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to Carolyn Bessette so private.

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They don't know the real story
and the heartbreak

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and the heartache
that we were all feeling.

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CNN has confirmed now
that the U.S. Coast Guard

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is conducting a search
for a private aircraft.

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Even after his death,
John continues to be part

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of this larger
American mythmaking.

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So it's always about,
what would he have done?

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What would he have been?

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Hello. I'm John Kennedy.

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♪♪

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Man: He returned
to Washington to be greeted

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by the skipping figure of his
2 1/2-year-old son, John-John.

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My first guest is, of course,
somebody we've all watched

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since he was a little boy
in the White House.

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Some of you know him
as John-John.

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Reporter: The boy the country
knew as John-John.

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When John-John...

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Cover it with a picture
of John-John.

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We want to believe that
John-John is pure and wonderful.

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Radziwill:
This whole John-John thing,

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I don't know where it came from.

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I think it was a press thing.

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Something happened
where people thought

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that maybe his family
called him John-John.

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So people just sort of
started saying that

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to imply that they
were close to him.

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But I promise you, his sister
didn't call him John-John.

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His mother,
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even, like, the extended cousins
ever called him John-John.

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Winfrey: I hear he doesn't like
to be called that,

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but he's all grown up now,
so we will just call him John.

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Soren: It was remarkable,
the kind of aura around him.

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Unless you know him personally,
he is a myth,

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even if he's standing
in front of you.

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I was at a dinner party
with him once.

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I wasn't talking to him
because I just felt like

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everybody's always trying
to talk to him,

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and just give the kid a break.

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I was nervous,
but it was coupled with

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trying to have some compassion

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for this person
who is under a microscope,

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because he comes with
an entire lifetime of baggage

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in us knowing things
that we probably shouldn't know

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or maybe understanding things
that aren't true about him.

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Man: How you doing, John?
Good. How are you?

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Pretty good.

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John became
the biggest celebrity in America

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when he was conceived.

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Narrator: In Georgetown,
a hopeful crowd

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waits for a glimpse of
John Fitzgerald Kennedy Jr.,

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first-baby-to-be,
who is whisked by

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heavily swaddled
against the subfreezing weather.

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Gillon: He made the front page
of every major newspaper

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when he was born.

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You have to realize
that JFK came to power

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just as television was becoming
the primary source

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for people getting their news.

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The candidates
need no introduction.

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The Republican candidate,
Vice President Richard M. Nixon,

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and the Democratic candidate,
Senator John F. Kennedy.

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Gillon: The White House
that John was born into

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was really the beginning
of the combination

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of celebrity and politics.

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His mom was a cultural icon.

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His father was the
most powerful man in the world.

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[ Crowd cheering ]

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I liked them, what their
feelings about things were,

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their politics, everything,
you know.

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And they were a hope,
a big, big hope.

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There was something about them
that was good and true.

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And you felt that.

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Only you can decide
what you want,

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what you want
this country to be,

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what you want to do
with the future.

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De Niro: That was
his public persona,

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and everybody really needed it.

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Even saying things like...

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Ask not what your country
can do for you.

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..."but what you can do
for your country,"

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those were very good things.

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Kennedy: We can organize
our life so that our people

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will find themselves living
in a world of peace and freedom.

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Soren: You're talking to
an Irish Catholic person

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whose parents
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who had a picture of Jesus,
literally,

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and JFK next to each other
over the couch.

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He meant so much to my family.

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[ Indistinct singing ]

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I'm a professor
of counseling psychology

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at Fordham University.

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And I do research
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and multicultural psychology.

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My family was always interested,
you know, in President Kennedy,

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the first Catholic president,
immigrant Irish family.

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So that launched my interest
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Then in recent years,
I was saying,

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"Can you imagine young
John F. Kennedy Jr. being born

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into that umbrella of notoriety
and fame of his father?

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How does he find
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Gillon:
When John was a little kid,

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you know, growing up
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there was this tug-of-war
going on

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between his father
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His mother wanted to protect
his privacy as much as possible.

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Jackie is trying
to put up these large trees

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to block people
from taking pictures,

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and JFK is having them torn up

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because he wants people
to see him.

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He understands that political
value of a wholesome family.

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[ Gunshot ]

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Man: It appears as though
something has happened

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in the motorcade route.

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Something, I repeat, has
happened in the motorcade route.

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President Kennedy died at
1:00 p.m. Central Standard Time.

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Soren: The whole country
endured this assassination.

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People remember exactly where
they were when this happened

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and stood in front of
their televisions and cried.

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Man: There's only one word
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and that's "grief."

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John became not just a young son
of an assassinated president,

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but John became almost like
a nephew or a younger cousin

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or even a son to the millions
of people watching.

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Man: John, what happened
to your father?

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Young Kennedy Jr.:
So, he's gone to heaven.

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He's gone to heaven?
Yeah.

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Do you remember him?
Yeah.

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What do you remember?

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I don't -- I don't
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The Kennedys, I think, are the
epitome of the American dream.

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But they are also the epitome
of everything

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that Americans hold in ambition,
right,

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the politics, the wealth,
the mystery.

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And then in an instant,
it's cut off.

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So now we don't know
what that possibility is.

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But when we see
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saluting the casket,

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the American public immediately
casts all those aspirations,

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all those myths,

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all those understandings
about John F. Kennedy

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and his unfinished legacy
onto his son.

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And so we see, I think,
a kind of heightened intensity

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and focus on John,
the boy who would be king.

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The great burden John had
was to play the role

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of John F. Kennedy Jr.

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And in many ways,

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his mother unintentionally
raised those expectations.

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I think every woman
wants to feel needed.

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And in politics, you are,

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so much more than
in many other fields.

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You're always living
in a state of crisis.

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You're always being demanded
to meet a challenge.

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And when you meet it,
it's a great satisfaction to me.

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Gillon: She was so determined
to preserve the legacy

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of her husband that she created
the myth of Camelot.

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As Jackie Kennedy said in
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just a few months
after his death,

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"Let's not forget there
once was a Camelot.

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There may be other
great presidents,

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but there will never be
another Camelot."

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Gillon: That myth is what
would carry forward.

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When people saw John,
they saw him as the person

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who was going to bring
Camelot alive again.

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And I think that became
a burden for him.

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Ginsberg: I mean, he was
3 years old when his dad died.

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His uncle was a big part
of his life.

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When Bobby asked him what
he wanted to do as an adult,

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I think he told Bobby
he wanted to be a chef.

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Bobby was like, "Are you
out of your [bleep] mind?"

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[ Laughs ]

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[ Applause ]

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Gillon: His family's greatest
accomplishments were public.

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They were presidents
and they were senators.

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They left a legacy
of accomplishment.

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John was the heir.

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If you were
to have a son,

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would you encourage
a political career for him?

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Yes, and I hope
if I had a daughter,

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I might encourage her
to play some part.

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But I would, definitely.

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I would hope he would grow up
to be if not a politician,

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I would hope
that whatever he did do

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that he would have some sense of
responsibility for what went on.

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Radziwill:
People had the expectation

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that John was going to grow up
and probably go into politics,

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and he may have eventually,

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but I think he envisioned,
you know, this other life.

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Ginsberg: I was a paper boy
for seven years on one block

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outside of Buffalo, New York,

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and I told people
when they asked,

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"Where are you
going to college?"

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I said, "I'm going
to Brown University."

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And to a person, they all said,

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"Isn't that where
John-John Kennedy goes?"

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I met him the first week of
sophomore year, his junior year.

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We were both taking a European
intellectual history class,

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and we were in a smaller seminar
with the professor.

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And so we had to one time
do a conversation

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00:11:35,132 --> 00:11:38,468
between Kierkegaard
and Nietzsche and Kant,

245
00:11:38,552 --> 00:11:41,054
and neither of us had a clue
how to do it.

246
00:11:41,138 --> 00:11:43,473
And I got up
and I gave my conversation.

247
00:11:43,515 --> 00:11:44,933
It was like
a two-minute conversation,

248
00:11:44,975 --> 00:11:46,268
and she just looked at me,

249
00:11:46,309 --> 00:11:48,311
kind of shaking her head
like, "What?"

250
00:11:48,353 --> 00:11:50,897
Then John gets up,
and he gives what I think

251
00:11:50,981 --> 00:11:54,985
is an equally obtuse,
inane conversation

252
00:11:55,068 --> 00:11:56,486
between these two intellectuals.

253
00:11:56,528 --> 00:11:59,823
And she says, "John,
that was so profound."

254
00:11:59,865 --> 00:12:02,534
And I thought,
"Damn, life is not fair."

255
00:12:02,617 --> 00:12:05,871
It was called the JK Factor,
which he later coined,

256
00:12:05,954 --> 00:12:09,791
which was there was always
that kind of special --

257
00:12:09,833 --> 00:12:11,168
he got a little bit
special treatment

258
00:12:11,251 --> 00:12:13,336
that the rest of us didn't get.

259
00:12:13,420 --> 00:12:15,172
Gillon: I was a graduate student
at Brown

260
00:12:15,255 --> 00:12:17,090
when John was an undergraduate.

261
00:12:17,174 --> 00:12:18,675
You know, I was older than him.

262
00:12:18,717 --> 00:12:21,762
You know, I understood the role
I played in John's life.

263
00:12:21,845 --> 00:12:23,555
I was the professor.

264
00:12:23,638 --> 00:12:25,640
We spent a lot of time together.

265
00:12:25,682 --> 00:12:28,018
I felt I really got to know him.

266
00:12:28,059 --> 00:12:29,686
Two, three times a week
sometimes,

267
00:12:29,770 --> 00:12:32,522
we'd hop in his little blue
Honda, and we would go there

268
00:12:32,606 --> 00:12:36,777
and we would have these really
intense games of racquetball,

269
00:12:36,860 --> 00:12:38,320
and then we would lift weights

270
00:12:38,361 --> 00:12:40,363
and then we would go
and get something to eat.

271
00:12:40,447 --> 00:12:42,240
And, of course,
John never had any money.

272
00:12:42,324 --> 00:12:45,535
So I was a graduate student
living on $5,000 a year,

273
00:12:45,619 --> 00:12:48,288
and I'm buying him --
Of course, it's Wendy's.

274
00:12:51,750 --> 00:12:55,504
Jackie knew
that John was scattered.

275
00:12:55,545 --> 00:12:59,424
She knew that he was
not good at making deadlines,

276
00:12:59,508 --> 00:13:02,135
filling out applications,
so she used to do it for him.

277
00:13:02,219 --> 00:13:06,389
Jackie filled out part
of John's application to Brown.

278
00:13:07,599 --> 00:13:10,894
Ponterotto: His mom was
a very powerful, strong figure.

279
00:13:10,936 --> 00:13:13,814
She had to be a loving,
nurturing mother

280
00:13:13,897 --> 00:13:17,108
but also a stern father
as a single mom.

281
00:13:17,192 --> 00:13:19,569
Gillon: I referred to her
as the "hidden hand" mother.

282
00:13:19,653 --> 00:13:22,906
She did things behind the scenes
so John didn't know it.

283
00:13:22,989 --> 00:13:26,451
Like this letter to a professor.

284
00:13:26,535 --> 00:13:30,997
She writes, "Dear Mrs. Romer,
I received today my copy

285
00:13:31,081 --> 00:13:33,458
of your letter
to my son John Kennedy,

286
00:13:33,542 --> 00:13:36,878
telling him that
he needs to complete two courses

287
00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:38,922
to be in good standing.

288
00:13:39,005 --> 00:13:42,092
I have never asked for special
consideration for my children,

289
00:13:42,175 --> 00:13:46,429
but there was an extra burden
John carried this year.

290
00:13:46,513 --> 00:13:50,600
He was asked to campaign almost
every weekend for his uncle."

291
00:13:50,684 --> 00:13:55,647
I come here today to ask for
your help and your support.

292
00:13:55,730 --> 00:13:59,359
Gillon: "And he thought
he could carry both loads."

293
00:13:59,442 --> 00:14:01,736
Ponterotto: John had
an adventurous streak

294
00:14:01,778 --> 00:14:03,488
and somewhat
of a risk-taking streak,

295
00:14:03,572 --> 00:14:06,074
and I think Mrs. Kennedy
wanted to make sure

296
00:14:06,116 --> 00:14:07,617
that there was balance there

297
00:14:07,659 --> 00:14:09,953
and John did not get himself
into trouble,

298
00:14:10,036 --> 00:14:12,289
which he did at times.

299
00:14:13,540 --> 00:14:15,292
Gillon:
He always said, you know,

300
00:14:15,333 --> 00:14:17,377
"I don't want to do
what people expect me to do."

301
00:14:17,460 --> 00:14:19,379
He needed to do something
that stood out,

302
00:14:19,462 --> 00:14:22,382
so that next year, he graduated
and went to India.

303
00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:26,469
Every once in a while,
he would write me a letter.

304
00:14:26,553 --> 00:14:29,931
"Dear Stevie,
I've spent most of my time

305
00:14:29,973 --> 00:14:34,436
traveling around to different
projects in different regions.

306
00:14:34,477 --> 00:14:37,272
Of course,
the inevitable thought is

307
00:14:37,314 --> 00:14:39,274
about what to do
when I get back.

308
00:14:39,316 --> 00:14:42,736
Might you keep your eyes
and ears open for me?

309
00:14:42,819 --> 00:14:48,033
And if anything passes your way,
perhaps you pass it on.

310
00:14:48,116 --> 00:14:50,619
Later, John."

311
00:14:50,660 --> 00:14:51,953
While he was in India,

312
00:14:51,995 --> 00:14:54,789
he thought about
going to law school.

313
00:14:54,831 --> 00:14:57,167
But John didn't want
to be a lawyer.

314
00:14:57,208 --> 00:15:00,003
For John, it was kind of a,
"You know what?

315
00:15:00,045 --> 00:15:01,296
What the hell?

316
00:15:01,338 --> 00:15:03,715
My mom wants me
to do something serious.

317
00:15:03,798 --> 00:15:07,052
It's serious.
I'll do it."

318
00:15:07,135 --> 00:15:10,639
John was at NYU's law school
when I was at NYU.

319
00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:14,142
Yes, it was always a good day
if you had a JFK Jr. sighting.

320
00:15:14,184 --> 00:15:17,020
He went to law school
when I was graduating.

321
00:15:17,062 --> 00:15:18,396
So he was always, you know,

322
00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:20,190
asking me about
what law school was like,

323
00:15:20,231 --> 00:15:22,192
'cause, you know,
I was seeing him all the time.

324
00:15:22,233 --> 00:15:23,902
John loved New York City.

325
00:15:23,985 --> 00:15:26,738
He was so much a part
of the landscape of New York,

326
00:15:26,821 --> 00:15:30,033
like, you know, 'cause
he rode his bike everywhere,

327
00:15:30,116 --> 00:15:32,786
played football
on the city playgrounds,

328
00:15:32,869 --> 00:15:35,246
if you can believe it.

329
00:15:35,330 --> 00:15:38,792
He wanted to live
a normal New York life.

330
00:15:38,875 --> 00:15:40,585
From East Harlem to Chinatown,

331
00:15:40,669 --> 00:15:43,588
from Mott Haven in the Bronx
to the Lower East Side,

332
00:15:43,672 --> 00:15:46,383
there is no place
quite like New York.

333
00:15:46,466 --> 00:15:48,510
Radziwill: He wanted to maybe
break some rules,

334
00:15:48,551 --> 00:15:50,011
and then he did.

335
00:15:50,053 --> 00:15:53,473
It sounds silly, but, like,
he moved downtown to Tribeca

336
00:15:53,556 --> 00:15:56,351
when his whole family lived
on the Upper East Side.

337
00:15:56,393 --> 00:15:58,395
And it just was like
in these little ways,

338
00:15:58,436 --> 00:16:00,563
you're making boundaries and
you're creating independence

339
00:16:00,605 --> 00:16:03,608
and you're creating
this other life.

340
00:16:03,692 --> 00:16:06,695
Rigueur: There is no such thing
as a private,

341
00:16:06,736 --> 00:16:10,699
normal day in the life
of John F. Kennedy Jr.

342
00:16:10,740 --> 00:16:15,412
He is repeatedly a focus
of not just tabloid fodder,

343
00:16:15,453 --> 00:16:19,249
but also fawning
public adoration.

344
00:16:19,290 --> 00:16:20,875
De Niro:
The first time I met him,

345
00:16:20,917 --> 00:16:22,711
he lived around the corner
from where I lived.

346
00:16:22,752 --> 00:16:27,549
He would be followed more
than, say, I was followed.

347
00:16:27,590 --> 00:16:30,343
Well, he was John Kennedy Jr.
[ Laughs ]

348
00:16:30,427 --> 00:16:32,595
Who wouldn't be interested
in him?

349
00:16:32,637 --> 00:16:36,224
He had those good looks,
and he was a regular person.

350
00:16:36,266 --> 00:16:38,309
People were just --
they couldn't get over him

351
00:16:38,393 --> 00:16:39,853
or get enough of him.

352
00:16:39,936 --> 00:16:43,940
Newspapers kept, you know,
selling because of him.

353
00:16:44,024 --> 00:16:46,401
And once you got the tabloid TV,

354
00:16:46,443 --> 00:16:50,113
it kept being so popular
because of him.

355
00:16:50,155 --> 00:16:53,658
That's when he became the most
desirable bachelor in New York.

356
00:16:53,742 --> 00:16:56,119
His dating life was just,
you know,

357
00:16:56,161 --> 00:16:57,787
the frenzy
of the gossip columns.

358
00:16:57,829 --> 00:17:00,123
You dated
John F. Kennedy Jr. once.
I did, yeah.

359
00:17:00,165 --> 00:17:01,458
A few times.
Yeah, for a while.

360
00:17:01,541 --> 00:17:02,792
Great guy.

361
00:17:02,834 --> 00:17:04,961
The stuff about being sexy
and attractive...

362
00:17:05,044 --> 00:17:07,755
Listen, people can say a lot
worse things about you, right,

363
00:17:07,797 --> 00:17:09,299
than you are attractive

364
00:17:09,382 --> 00:17:10,633
and you look good
in a bathing suit.

365
00:17:10,716 --> 00:17:12,260
John Kennedy's
going to be in my class?

366
00:17:12,302 --> 00:17:14,471
I can get you a spot
right behind him.

367
00:17:14,553 --> 00:17:17,057
He has got
a great butt.

368
00:17:17,139 --> 00:17:19,059
He looks like his father.

369
00:17:19,142 --> 00:17:23,772
His mother was, you know, the
most iconic beauty in the world.

370
00:17:23,812 --> 00:17:27,067
And they were America's
royal family, essentially.

371
00:17:27,149 --> 00:17:29,319
And John Jr., you know,

372
00:17:29,360 --> 00:17:31,654
looked like he had everything
going for him

373
00:17:31,738 --> 00:17:34,657
that could make him
a real spear carrier

374
00:17:34,741 --> 00:17:38,703
for the next gen of that karma,
essentially.

375
00:17:38,787 --> 00:17:41,289
Rigueur: There is an intense
amount of scrutiny around,

376
00:17:41,331 --> 00:17:46,252
what is John F. Kennedy Jr.'s
thing going to be?

377
00:17:46,336 --> 00:17:47,962
Do you think
you might be interested

378
00:17:48,004 --> 00:17:49,756
in going into politics?

379
00:17:49,839 --> 00:17:53,718
Well, I'm completely busy and
consumed by what I'm doing now.

380
00:17:53,802 --> 00:17:58,098
And, you know, obviously, I find
public issues interesting.

381
00:17:58,181 --> 00:17:59,516
And I can't help but find

382
00:17:59,599 --> 00:18:01,142
a convention like this
interesting.

383
00:18:01,184 --> 00:18:02,894
But I'm just --

384
00:18:02,977 --> 00:18:04,187
You know,
I'll see what happens,

385
00:18:04,270 --> 00:18:06,689
and I'm happy doing
what I'm doing.

386
00:18:06,731 --> 00:18:08,942
Ginsberg: We studied
for the LSAT together.

387
00:18:09,025 --> 00:18:11,152
It was not a natural thing
for us.

388
00:18:11,194 --> 00:18:12,695
And yet he didn't care.

389
00:18:12,737 --> 00:18:14,322
You know,
he was willing to put himself

390
00:18:14,364 --> 00:18:17,283
into uncomfortable situations

391
00:18:17,367 --> 00:18:19,536
and overcome
whatever limitations

392
00:18:19,577 --> 00:18:22,831
he thought he might have
to succeed.

393
00:18:22,872 --> 00:18:26,584
You know, God willing,
I'll be back there in July

394
00:18:26,668 --> 00:18:29,045
and I'll pass it then
or I'll pass it the next time

395
00:18:29,129 --> 00:18:30,755
or I'll pass it when I'm 95.

396
00:18:30,839 --> 00:18:32,549
Normally it's
a private experience

397
00:18:32,632 --> 00:18:34,384
when you fail the bar, right?

398
00:18:34,425 --> 00:18:36,386
Your parents know,
your siblings know,

399
00:18:36,469 --> 00:18:37,929
maybe a couple of co-workers.

400
00:18:38,012 --> 00:18:40,265
the entire world knew.

401
00:18:40,348 --> 00:18:42,267
Unfortunately, flunked again,
and unfortunately,

402
00:18:42,350 --> 00:18:47,355
the media was just as vicious.

403
00:18:47,397 --> 00:18:50,525
He was able to finally pass it
by his third try.

404
00:18:50,567 --> 00:18:52,277
Slow news day,
I guess, huh?

405
00:18:52,360 --> 00:18:53,653
Man:
How do you feel about it?

406
00:18:53,736 --> 00:18:55,572
It tastes pretty sweet
at the moment.

407
00:18:55,655 --> 00:18:58,700
Gillon: John felt he needed to
redefine himself to the public.

408
00:18:58,741 --> 00:19:01,744
He didn't want to be remembered
as the hunk flunks.

409
00:19:01,786 --> 00:19:04,164
He didn't want to be remembered
as the sexiest man alive.

410
00:19:04,247 --> 00:19:06,624
He wanted to have
some accomplishment.

411
00:19:06,708 --> 00:19:08,793
You going to stay here
in the DA's office?

412
00:19:08,877 --> 00:19:10,503
Sure, absolutely.

413
00:19:10,587 --> 00:19:12,630
What kind of cases
are you looking forward to?

414
00:19:16,676 --> 00:19:19,762
[ Indistinct singing,
cheers and applause ]

415
00:19:24,309 --> 00:19:25,852
Ginsberg: In 1992,

416
00:19:25,935 --> 00:19:28,438
John was watching
the campaign really closely

417
00:19:28,479 --> 00:19:31,608
because Clinton
had captured the imagination

418
00:19:31,691 --> 00:19:35,570
of a much broader group
of voters and personalities

419
00:19:35,612 --> 00:19:39,365
and people to bring them
into the political process.

420
00:19:39,449 --> 00:19:42,535
America can be made
forever young,

421
00:19:42,619 --> 00:19:46,289
the idea that drove John Kennedy
to the presidency in their time.

422
00:19:46,372 --> 00:19:47,832
[ Cheers and applause ]

423
00:19:47,916 --> 00:19:52,086
Bill Clinton really just
zeroed in on young people.

424
00:19:52,128 --> 00:19:53,963
It's like, "If I can get
the young vote,

425
00:19:54,047 --> 00:19:55,632
I can win this election."

426
00:19:55,715 --> 00:19:58,134
Education, the environment,
AIDS, the economy,

427
00:19:58,176 --> 00:19:59,636
why young people don't vote.

428
00:19:59,677 --> 00:20:01,179
Governor Bill Clinton
will be here to answer

429
00:20:01,262 --> 00:20:03,306
those questions and more next.

430
00:20:03,389 --> 00:20:05,975
Until Bill Clinton,

431
00:20:06,059 --> 00:20:08,937
I had always thought
of presidential candidates

432
00:20:08,978 --> 00:20:11,564
as about probably
my grandfather's age.

433
00:20:11,648 --> 00:20:13,316
One reason for
the alienation of young people

434
00:20:13,399 --> 00:20:15,735
is this is
a more diverse society

435
00:20:15,818 --> 00:20:17,946
than you can tell by looking
on television at night

436
00:20:17,987 --> 00:20:19,656
at the people running it.

437
00:20:19,697 --> 00:20:24,827
For me, the two snapshots
of the entire campaign in 1992

438
00:20:24,911 --> 00:20:28,623
are doing a town hall
with Clinton

439
00:20:28,665 --> 00:20:32,210
and having him
be asked questions

440
00:20:32,293 --> 00:20:33,878
that showed his humanity.

441
00:20:33,962 --> 00:20:36,673
If you had it to do over again,
would you inhale?

442
00:20:36,756 --> 00:20:39,050
Sure, if I could.
I tried before.

443
00:20:39,133 --> 00:20:40,218
[ Laughter ]

444
00:20:40,301 --> 00:20:42,595
The other snapshot for me

445
00:20:42,679 --> 00:20:45,139
is being on the back
of a moving train

446
00:20:45,181 --> 00:20:46,516
with the person
I was interviewing,

447
00:20:46,557 --> 00:20:48,518
who happened to be
George H.W. Bush.

448
00:20:48,601 --> 00:20:50,311
The message isn't
really getting through.

449
00:20:50,353 --> 00:20:52,647
The Republican platform
says abstinence.

450
00:20:52,689 --> 00:20:55,525
Well, I'm a little concerned
about 13-year-old pregnancies.

451
00:20:55,566 --> 00:20:57,402
Maybe others aren't.
I'm very much concerned.
Well, but --

452
00:20:57,485 --> 00:20:59,445
May I finish, please?

453
00:20:59,529 --> 00:21:02,115
When Bush is interviewed
by Tabitha Soren,

454
00:21:02,198 --> 00:21:04,033
it is one of the most awkward

455
00:21:04,075 --> 00:21:07,495
political-meets-pop-culture
interviews.

456
00:21:07,537 --> 00:21:10,707
Bush doesn't understand
the culture in a way

457
00:21:10,748 --> 00:21:13,459
that translates
to MTV's audience.

458
00:21:14,877 --> 00:21:20,216
All of a sudden, Clinton
is conveying a stark contrast

459
00:21:20,300 --> 00:21:21,801
to all the other options,

460
00:21:21,884 --> 00:21:24,512
and he's using
non-traditional media to do it.

461
00:21:24,554 --> 00:21:26,556
[ Saxophone playing ]

462
00:21:26,597 --> 00:21:28,808
[ Cheers and applause ]

463
00:21:28,891 --> 00:21:30,435
Carmody:
Politics was becoming --

464
00:21:30,518 --> 00:21:32,020
I don't want to say sexy,

465
00:21:32,061 --> 00:21:36,274
but it was becoming
more part of the mainstream.

466
00:21:36,357 --> 00:21:37,900
You know what
your drummer said?
What?

467
00:21:37,984 --> 00:21:39,736
He said, "If this music thing
doesn't work out,

468
00:21:39,777 --> 00:21:41,487
you can always
run for president."

469
00:21:41,571 --> 00:21:43,531
[ Laughter ]

470
00:21:43,573 --> 00:21:45,241
Soren: You can't be dismissive
of young people,

471
00:21:45,283 --> 00:21:47,952
and young people insist
that you move with the times.

472
00:21:48,036 --> 00:21:50,580
And because JFK Jr.
was a young person,

473
00:21:50,663 --> 00:21:52,540
he didn't need any convincing.

474
00:21:52,582 --> 00:21:54,792
What he needed was
the ability to create,

475
00:21:54,876 --> 00:21:59,380
you know, some sort of entity
to further those ideas.

476
00:22:01,549 --> 00:22:04,427
So, John is working for

477
00:22:04,510 --> 00:22:06,763
the New York Office
of Business Development,

478
00:22:06,804 --> 00:22:08,931
I believe, and Michael Berman,

479
00:22:09,015 --> 00:22:12,143
who was a very successful
advertising executive,

480
00:22:12,226 --> 00:22:14,771
was volunteering one day a week,

481
00:22:14,854 --> 00:22:17,732
and they met,
and they bonded right away.

482
00:22:17,774 --> 00:22:20,943
And they decided after a while
to go into business.

483
00:22:20,985 --> 00:22:22,445
You came from PR, right?

484
00:22:22,528 --> 00:22:24,489
Right. I had a public relations
and marketing company.

485
00:22:24,572 --> 00:22:26,657
We launched products
in the marketplace,

486
00:22:26,741 --> 00:22:28,659
so that was my forte here,

487
00:22:28,743 --> 00:22:31,204
and combined with John's,
you know, incredible knowledge

488
00:22:31,287 --> 00:22:32,663
and passion for politics.

489
00:22:32,747 --> 00:22:34,374
Ginsberg: Michael had
a very commercial mind.

490
00:22:34,457 --> 00:22:36,459
He was more of a businessman.

491
00:22:36,501 --> 00:22:39,587
He understood numbers.
He understood marketing.

492
00:22:39,629 --> 00:22:42,090
He understood
how to sell a product.

493
00:22:42,131 --> 00:22:45,009
He brought a certain discipline
to the process

494
00:22:45,093 --> 00:22:46,969
that John perhaps lacked.

495
00:22:47,011 --> 00:22:48,304
In addition to the fact

496
00:22:48,346 --> 00:22:50,431
that political magazines
wouldn't sell,

497
00:22:50,473 --> 00:22:54,852
the experts early on advised us
of just one other key point --

498
00:22:54,936 --> 00:22:58,147
Never go into business
with a friend.

499
00:22:58,189 --> 00:23:02,819
Well, being right one time
out of two ain't bad.

500
00:23:02,860 --> 00:23:04,570
It was a process
of hashing it out.

501
00:23:04,654 --> 00:23:06,614
I think it was
during that period

502
00:23:06,656 --> 00:23:08,866
when I had my first conversation
with John about it,

503
00:23:08,950 --> 00:23:11,411
and he obviously
had bought into the idea

504
00:23:11,494 --> 00:23:13,830
and was very excited about it.

505
00:23:13,913 --> 00:23:19,335
So the two of them
together created George.

506
00:23:19,419 --> 00:23:22,839
Brown: John's relationship
to the press was extremely wary.

507
00:23:22,922 --> 00:23:25,133
They wanted quotes.
They wanted scandal.

508
00:23:25,174 --> 00:23:26,843
They wanted a piece of him.

509
00:23:26,926 --> 00:23:30,555
And yet because he had been
a celebrity all his own life,

510
00:23:30,638 --> 00:23:33,307
it is also very much something
he understood

511
00:23:33,349 --> 00:23:35,101
and wanted to be a player in.

512
00:23:35,184 --> 00:23:36,686
[ Indistinct talking ]

513
00:23:36,769 --> 00:23:41,357
John held journalists,
in a slightly exalted place.

514
00:23:41,399 --> 00:23:45,862
His father was a journalist
before he went into politics,

515
00:23:45,903 --> 00:23:50,199
and Jackie was a photographer,
then she was an editor

516
00:23:50,241 --> 00:23:54,120
for a major book publishing firm
in New York.

517
00:23:54,203 --> 00:23:56,456
Ginsberg: So I would presume
that there was a part of her

518
00:23:56,539 --> 00:23:57,999
that actually really liked
the idea

519
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,501
of John starting
a political magazine.

520
00:24:00,543 --> 00:24:03,296
Gillon: She was putting him
in touch with influential people

521
00:24:03,379 --> 00:24:07,133
in the magazine world
that would normally not have met

522
00:24:07,216 --> 00:24:09,886
with two people
coming up with an idea

523
00:24:09,927 --> 00:24:12,805
that had no background
in magazines.

524
00:24:12,889 --> 00:24:15,933
John didn't like to be treated
differently most times,

525
00:24:16,017 --> 00:24:19,228
but his mom was the one
who was calling in the favors

526
00:24:19,270 --> 00:24:22,773
and not him, and I think that
made it a little easier for him.

527
00:24:30,198 --> 00:24:33,451
Radziwill: In any family
that has that kind of rich,

528
00:24:33,534 --> 00:24:34,911
long history,

529
00:24:34,994 --> 00:24:38,080
everyone kind of has roles,
right?

530
00:24:38,164 --> 00:24:39,832
Everyone has a role
in the family.

531
00:24:39,916 --> 00:24:43,002
Even in typical families,
I think everyone --

532
00:24:43,085 --> 00:24:44,921
There is, like,
the middle funny child

533
00:24:44,962 --> 00:24:46,756
and the bossy older sibling,

534
00:24:46,797 --> 00:24:48,799
and everyone kind of
takes on a role.

535
00:24:48,883 --> 00:24:50,176
And I think John was just, like,

536
00:24:50,259 --> 00:24:52,762
a little bit more
of a free spirit.

537
00:24:52,845 --> 00:24:55,264
There was a lot of, "Oh, John,
what is he doing now?

538
00:24:55,306 --> 00:24:56,766
What did he get himself into?"

539
00:24:56,849 --> 00:24:59,519
This was his, like, tagline.

540
00:25:00,770 --> 00:25:03,064
Anthony was his cousin.

541
00:25:03,105 --> 00:25:05,942
They grew up together
from childhood,

542
00:25:05,983 --> 00:25:08,694
and they were always
playing jokes on each other.

543
00:25:08,778 --> 00:25:11,280
They were just fun together.

544
00:25:11,322 --> 00:25:13,574
Anthony and I started dating

545
00:25:13,616 --> 00:25:17,620
eight months after
I first met him in L.A.

546
00:25:17,662 --> 00:25:20,623
We were together sort of casual

547
00:25:20,665 --> 00:25:22,959
because we were both
at ABC News

548
00:25:23,042 --> 00:25:26,796
and we just felt like,
"Let's just keep this quiet."

549
00:25:26,879 --> 00:25:28,297
But, of course, it was the '90s.

550
00:25:28,381 --> 00:25:31,217
Everyone was hooking up at work.

551
00:25:31,300 --> 00:25:34,929
The weekend I met John, he was
out at the beach with Carolyn.

552
00:25:38,140 --> 00:25:41,477
She was sort of extraordinary
in so many ways.

553
00:25:41,561 --> 00:25:43,479
We were in our late 20s
at the time,

554
00:25:43,563 --> 00:25:48,651
and she was the first girl
I ever knew who really was,

555
00:25:48,734 --> 00:25:52,488
like, this much overused
expression, girl's girl.

556
00:25:52,572 --> 00:25:54,282
She was so beautiful.

557
00:25:55,950 --> 00:25:58,869
South: I met Carolyn when
she worked for Calvin Klein.

558
00:25:58,953 --> 00:26:00,830
I was at Vanity Fair.

559
00:26:00,871 --> 00:26:03,708
I was the kind of person
on the editorial side

560
00:26:03,791 --> 00:26:05,209
who was meant to have

561
00:26:05,293 --> 00:26:09,839
the best relationship
with the advertisers,

562
00:26:09,922 --> 00:26:12,508
and Calvin was certainly
one of the biggest.

563
00:26:12,550 --> 00:26:15,261
Carolyn was one of those people
that the moment you met her,

564
00:26:15,344 --> 00:26:17,221
she kind of filled the room.

565
00:26:17,305 --> 00:26:20,725
I mean,
she was incredibly beautiful.

566
00:26:20,808 --> 00:26:24,937
She was very, very smart.
She had a serious brain.

567
00:26:25,021 --> 00:26:26,522
They met -- He had come in

568
00:26:26,606 --> 00:26:28,357
to get some suits fitted
or something,

569
00:26:28,399 --> 00:26:31,694
and she was sort of
Calvin Klein's muse

570
00:26:31,777 --> 00:26:33,654
and also ran PR.

571
00:26:33,696 --> 00:26:36,907
She was very sophisticated
in that way.

572
00:26:36,991 --> 00:26:38,784
And that's how
they originally met.

573
00:26:38,868 --> 00:26:42,038
And then two weekends later,
he brought Daryl Hannah,

574
00:26:42,121 --> 00:26:46,083
who he had had a previously
pretty long relationship with.

575
00:26:47,627 --> 00:26:50,546
He said that Daryl decided
to move back to New York --

576
00:26:50,588 --> 00:26:52,048
she was living in L.A.
or something --

577
00:26:52,089 --> 00:26:55,551
and that he felt
like he owed it to her

578
00:26:55,635 --> 00:26:57,053
to try to see if it could work

579
00:26:57,136 --> 00:27:00,431
that they were both living
on the same coast.

580
00:27:00,514 --> 00:27:04,810
His mom did have concerns with
Daryl Hannah, the movie star.

581
00:27:04,894 --> 00:27:08,564
Christina Haag,
who he dated after Brown,

582
00:27:08,648 --> 00:27:10,358
you know, once said,
"To love John,

583
00:27:10,399 --> 00:27:13,361
you need the approval
of his mom first."

584
00:27:16,238 --> 00:27:17,782
Radziwill:
And I'm sure he loved Daryl.

585
00:27:17,865 --> 00:27:19,825
They stayed together
for a couple years

586
00:27:19,909 --> 00:27:21,994
until his mother got sick.

587
00:27:23,746 --> 00:27:25,414
Reporter:
Through a family spokeswoman,

588
00:27:25,456 --> 00:27:28,417
the former first lady has
revealed she is being treated

589
00:27:28,459 --> 00:27:32,338
for a form of cancer
of the lymphatic system,

590
00:27:32,421 --> 00:27:34,465
the lymph nodes scattered
around the body

591
00:27:34,548 --> 00:27:37,468
that play a major role
in the immune system.

592
00:27:37,551 --> 00:27:39,261
The 64-year-old Mrs. Onassis

593
00:27:39,303 --> 00:27:41,389
found out she was suffering
from the disease

594
00:27:41,430 --> 00:27:45,768
after going to her doctor last
month with flu-like symptoms.

595
00:27:47,937 --> 00:27:52,108
It was very traumatic
because my husband --

596
00:27:52,191 --> 00:27:57,780
well, at that point, my fiancé,
you know, was battling cancer.

597
00:27:57,863 --> 00:28:00,825
He called Jackie to tell her,
and he's like,

598
00:28:00,908 --> 00:28:02,451
"I have something to tell you."

599
00:28:02,493 --> 00:28:05,371
Then I remember him saying,
"Okay, you go first."

600
00:28:05,454 --> 00:28:09,041
And she said,
you know, "I have bad news,

601
00:28:09,125 --> 00:28:13,295
that I've been diagnosed
with lymphoma."

602
00:28:13,337 --> 00:28:15,089
The former first lady
is suffering

603
00:28:15,131 --> 00:28:18,134
from non-Hodgkin's lymphoma,
a form of cancer.

604
00:28:18,217 --> 00:28:19,969
A spokeswoman says Mrs. Onassis

605
00:28:20,010 --> 00:28:21,804
will not have
any further treatment.

606
00:28:21,887 --> 00:28:23,264
The disease has progressed

607
00:28:23,305 --> 00:28:25,850
and there is nothing
doctors can do for her.

608
00:28:25,933 --> 00:28:27,393
All day long,
family and relatives

609
00:28:27,476 --> 00:28:29,812
paid visits to her apartment
on Fifth Avenue.

610
00:28:29,854 --> 00:28:31,480
You know,
the end came pretty quickly.

611
00:28:31,522 --> 00:28:35,901
I remember, like, it was Sunday
when we all were together,

612
00:28:35,985 --> 00:28:37,361
and Thursday she passed away,

613
00:28:37,445 --> 00:28:40,030
so it was a very short
little window.

614
00:28:40,114 --> 00:28:42,158
Reporter: Bettina,
family members are now leaving

615
00:28:42,241 --> 00:28:44,785
the apartment building
on Fifth Avenue in New York

616
00:28:44,827 --> 00:28:47,913
across from Central Park
where Mrs. Onassis died

617
00:28:47,997 --> 00:28:50,833
now almost three hours ago.

618
00:28:52,668 --> 00:28:54,378
John did say to me one time --

619
00:28:54,462 --> 00:28:56,380
He said,
"I'm too young to be an orphan."

620
00:28:56,464 --> 00:28:59,842
He was just
absolutely devastated.

621
00:28:59,925 --> 00:29:01,927
Kennedy Jr.:
My mother passed on.

622
00:29:02,011 --> 00:29:05,639
She was surrounded
by her friends and her family

623
00:29:05,681 --> 00:29:09,977
and her books and the people
and the things that she loved.

624
00:29:10,019 --> 00:29:13,189
And she did it in her own way
and on her own terms.

625
00:29:13,272 --> 00:29:17,359
And, uh --
And we all feel lucky for that.

626
00:29:19,153 --> 00:29:24,033
Ginsberg: This is a note
that John's mom wrote to John

627
00:29:24,116 --> 00:29:26,202
days before she died

628
00:29:26,285 --> 00:29:31,373
and only to be opened
after her death in May of 1994.

629
00:29:31,457 --> 00:29:34,251
"I understand the pressure
you'll forever have to endure

630
00:29:34,335 --> 00:29:36,670
as a Kennedy,
even though we brought you

631
00:29:36,712 --> 00:29:38,506
into this world as an innocent.

632
00:29:38,547 --> 00:29:41,842
You especially have a place
in history,

633
00:29:41,884 --> 00:29:44,887
no matter what course in life
you choose.

634
00:29:44,970 --> 00:29:47,848
All I can ask
is that you continue to make me,

635
00:29:47,890 --> 00:29:50,518
the Kennedy family,
and yourself proud."

636
00:29:54,355 --> 00:29:56,106
Gillon: So he had
this whole drama going on

637
00:29:56,190 --> 00:29:59,360
with Daryl Hannah, who he
had really broken up with.

638
00:29:59,401 --> 00:30:01,487
But, you know,
so this is like --

639
00:30:01,570 --> 00:30:02,863
This is John's life, right?

640
00:30:02,905 --> 00:30:05,741
His mom dies.
He's mourning his mom.

641
00:30:05,783 --> 00:30:08,911
But he's afraid
that if the public knows

642
00:30:08,953 --> 00:30:10,788
he's broken up
with Daryl Hannah,

643
00:30:10,871 --> 00:30:13,874
the media is going to focus
on that and not on his mom

644
00:30:13,916 --> 00:30:15,543
and his mom's life.

645
00:30:15,584 --> 00:30:18,587
So he went through the pretense
of still being together,

646
00:30:18,629 --> 00:30:21,340
and they went rollerblading
down Fifth Avenue,

647
00:30:21,423 --> 00:30:24,260
I think, just so everybody
could see them together.

648
00:30:24,301 --> 00:30:26,220
That's the kind of calculation
John has to make

649
00:30:26,262 --> 00:30:28,264
that most of us
don't have to make.

650
00:30:29,682 --> 00:30:32,476
Radziwill: John and Jackie,
they were very close.

651
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:36,438
He was heartbroken, and it was
a really hard time for him.

652
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:40,484
But there was almost like, I
would say, like an emancipation.

653
00:30:42,319 --> 00:30:44,655
I think for the first time,

654
00:30:44,738 --> 00:30:48,617
he felt free to do
what he wanted to do in a way

655
00:30:48,701 --> 00:30:51,745
that he wouldn't have
when his mom was alive.

656
00:30:51,787 --> 00:30:56,500
And, you know, there's --
a lot of good came out of that.

657
00:30:56,584 --> 00:30:59,336
He reconnected
pretty quickly with Carolyn,

658
00:30:59,420 --> 00:31:02,047
and, of course, he had started
working on the magazine

659
00:31:02,131 --> 00:31:03,966
years earlier.

660
00:31:04,008 --> 00:31:06,886
This was like a rebirth for him,
in a way.

661
00:31:06,969 --> 00:31:10,681
He just felt free.

662
00:31:10,764 --> 00:31:13,017
-CNN. John!
-John!

663
00:31:18,647 --> 00:31:21,734
Andersen: I was the editor
of New York Magazine

664
00:31:21,817 --> 00:31:25,738
when John Kennedy,
whom I'd never met, said,

665
00:31:25,821 --> 00:31:29,325
"I'd love to have lunch with you
and my partner, Michael Berman."

666
00:31:29,408 --> 00:31:33,996
And we did, of course,
at the Royalton Hotel.

667
00:31:35,164 --> 00:31:37,625
And it was --
I was impressed by him.

668
00:31:37,666 --> 00:31:41,587
He was, you know, intelligent,
thoughtful, charming,

669
00:31:41,670 --> 00:31:45,132
not arrogant-seeming,
not entitled-seeming,

670
00:31:45,174 --> 00:31:47,843
although, of course,
the most entitled human being

671
00:31:47,885 --> 00:31:49,178
in existence, probably.

672
00:31:49,261 --> 00:31:52,640
But I liked him,
and he wasn't stupid.

673
00:31:52,681 --> 00:31:54,433
I thought you were
a lawyer.

674
00:31:54,516 --> 00:31:55,351
I was.

675
00:31:55,392 --> 00:31:57,519
You were a DA.
Are you now --

676
00:31:57,561 --> 00:31:59,730
This is it?
This is going to be your life?

677
00:31:59,813 --> 00:32:03,400
Editing, publishing,
magazines, writing, is that it?

678
00:32:03,484 --> 00:32:06,028
I don't remember
the specific presentation,

679
00:32:06,070 --> 00:32:07,321
"This is what I want to do,"

680
00:32:07,363 --> 00:32:09,907
but I understood it
to be a magazine

681
00:32:09,990 --> 00:32:13,494
about politics
and political figures

682
00:32:13,535 --> 00:32:16,747
that would be smart

683
00:32:16,830 --> 00:32:20,793
but in a in a sassy, glossy way.

684
00:32:20,876 --> 00:32:22,378
I thought, oh, this is worth --

685
00:32:22,461 --> 00:32:24,463
some version of this
is worth a try.

686
00:32:24,546 --> 00:32:26,215
One of the challenges
for us was

687
00:32:26,256 --> 00:32:27,716
how you come up with
a magazine about politics

688
00:32:27,758 --> 00:32:32,429
that somehow gets around
the word "politics."

689
00:32:32,513 --> 00:32:37,059
John wanted to take
this arcane process of lawmaking

690
00:32:37,101 --> 00:32:38,727
and popularize it.

691
00:32:38,769 --> 00:32:41,397
So he said, "I'm going to
use graphics, use diagrams."

692
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,357
Make it accessible
and make it familiar

693
00:32:43,399 --> 00:32:45,192
and create an identity.

694
00:32:45,234 --> 00:32:46,694
He said George is to politics

695
00:32:46,735 --> 00:32:48,737
with Sports Illustrated is
to sports

696
00:32:48,779 --> 00:32:53,075
and Allure is to beauty
and music is to Rolling Stone.

697
00:32:53,117 --> 00:32:55,661
Ginsberg:
He wanted people in the middle
of the country to read it.

698
00:32:55,744 --> 00:32:57,830
He wanted to make it
post-partisan,

699
00:32:57,913 --> 00:33:02,710
because I think Bill Clinton had
this aura of post-partisanship.

700
00:33:02,751 --> 00:33:04,753
He shattered the perceptions

701
00:33:04,837 --> 00:33:07,172
that somehow you have to stay
within the two-party system.

702
00:33:07,256 --> 00:33:08,924
If you could
turn on people

703
00:33:08,966 --> 00:33:12,428
who'd never really considered
themselves politically oriented,

704
00:33:12,469 --> 00:33:14,930
turn them onto politics
somehow through this magazine,

705
00:33:14,972 --> 00:33:17,141
that would be a success
for us.

706
00:33:19,268 --> 00:33:20,728
Gillon: I was skeptical.

707
00:33:20,769 --> 00:33:23,022
John's launching a magazine
that's designed

708
00:33:23,105 --> 00:33:25,399
to blur the line between liberal
and conservative

709
00:33:25,441 --> 00:33:28,569
just as American politics
were becoming more polarized

710
00:33:28,610 --> 00:33:29,945
between left and right.

711
00:33:29,987 --> 00:33:32,448
We're going to be open
to working with everyone,

712
00:33:32,489 --> 00:33:34,700
that we will cooperate
with anyone,

713
00:33:34,783 --> 00:33:36,785
and we will compromise
with no one.

714
00:33:36,869 --> 00:33:41,123
Politically it was a pretty wild
time, 'cause think about it.

715
00:33:41,165 --> 00:33:44,251
Like, Clinton wins in '92.

716
00:33:44,293 --> 00:33:47,671
And then midterms...

717
00:33:47,755 --> 00:33:49,381
the Democrats got trounced

718
00:33:49,465 --> 00:33:52,259
by the whole
Newt Gingrich revolution.

719
00:33:52,301 --> 00:33:56,680
You've got Gingrich
waging war on the government.

720
00:33:56,764 --> 00:33:58,348
You know,
he tried to shut it down,

721
00:33:58,432 --> 00:34:00,309
if you remember,
with the budget.

722
00:34:01,685 --> 00:34:05,105
We also begin to see
the success of Rush Limbaugh

723
00:34:05,147 --> 00:34:06,899
during this period.

724
00:34:06,982 --> 00:34:08,233
Limbaugh:
You people in the press

725
00:34:08,316 --> 00:34:09,985
have got to
understand something.

726
00:34:10,026 --> 00:34:12,905
This country is conservative.
It has been for a long time.

727
00:34:12,988 --> 00:34:14,198
Get used to it.

728
00:34:14,281 --> 00:34:17,493
You tried to change it,
and you failed.

729
00:34:17,575 --> 00:34:20,662
It was an incredibly risky
thing for John to do,

730
00:34:20,746 --> 00:34:22,206
and he could have taken
the safe route.

731
00:34:22,289 --> 00:34:24,749
But John's fiercely competitive,
right.

732
00:34:26,293 --> 00:34:27,753
Brown: Starting a magazine
is so hard.

733
00:34:27,836 --> 00:34:30,130
I had heard
that he'd talked to people.

734
00:34:30,171 --> 00:34:31,506
My immediate instinct about it

735
00:34:31,590 --> 00:34:33,883
was it was a vanity project
for him

736
00:34:33,967 --> 00:34:38,347
and was very skeptical
that it would be any good.

737
00:34:38,388 --> 00:34:40,015
But when I first met him

738
00:34:40,057 --> 00:34:43,560
and I saw him to be this kind of
rather gentlemanly figure,

739
00:34:43,644 --> 00:34:48,231
he was more kind of courtly
and slightly old-fashioned,

740
00:34:48,314 --> 00:34:49,608
actually, than I'd expected.

741
00:34:49,691 --> 00:34:52,861
And he understood
that he was a star

742
00:34:52,945 --> 00:34:56,698
and that he really
could have whatever he wanted.

743
00:34:56,782 --> 00:34:59,785
Carter:
I knew John, and when he started
the magazine, we had a chat.

744
00:34:59,868 --> 00:35:01,870
If I'd been his father
or an uncle or something,

745
00:35:01,954 --> 00:35:04,164
I would have said,
"Go work at another magazine

746
00:35:04,206 --> 00:35:05,874
for three years
before you do this."

747
00:35:05,958 --> 00:35:08,919
You know, "Get your feet under
the desk on somebody else's dime

748
00:35:09,002 --> 00:35:11,713
and figure out all the things
you don't want to do

749
00:35:11,797 --> 00:35:14,341
and do want to do
before you actually launch it,

750
00:35:14,383 --> 00:35:16,218
because it's going to be big
at first

751
00:35:16,260 --> 00:35:17,928
and it's going to get noticed."

752
00:35:18,011 --> 00:35:20,931
And it's a tough job.
There's no school to get --

753
00:35:21,014 --> 00:35:23,183
You know, there's a school --
you need to get a license

754
00:35:23,225 --> 00:35:27,146
to practice real-estate sales
and home -- and decorating.

755
00:35:27,229 --> 00:35:28,564
There's nothing to be an editor

756
00:35:28,605 --> 00:35:30,149
unless you've worked
at a magazine.

757
00:35:30,232 --> 00:35:32,609
And he hadn't done that.

758
00:35:32,693 --> 00:35:35,487
Ginsberg:
Finally, we were ready to go.

759
00:35:35,571 --> 00:35:37,739
[ Indistinct conversations ]

760
00:35:37,823 --> 00:35:42,119
John and Michael --
they were pitching everybody.

761
00:35:42,202 --> 00:35:44,204
And everybody
would take the pitch

762
00:35:44,246 --> 00:35:45,789
'cause they all
wanted to meet John.

763
00:35:45,873 --> 00:35:48,292
So he had a lot more pitches
than the average person.

764
00:35:48,375 --> 00:35:51,628
But it also meant he had
a lot more rejections.

765
00:35:51,712 --> 00:35:53,422
And they would come back,
and, you know, it's like,

766
00:35:53,505 --> 00:35:55,174
"Great meeting, great meeting,"
and then you'd find out

767
00:35:55,257 --> 00:35:58,468
a day or two later they'd
get a phone call it's a no-go.

768
00:36:00,429 --> 00:36:02,639
George was a huge risk
for John.

769
00:36:02,723 --> 00:36:06,602
Look, George was a risk
for any person

770
00:36:06,685 --> 00:36:08,270
wanting to start a magazine.

771
00:36:08,312 --> 00:36:10,480
You were starting
a political magazine,

772
00:36:10,564 --> 00:36:14,109
which, by definition,
never worked.

773
00:36:14,193 --> 00:36:16,069
It was a risk for anybody.

774
00:36:16,111 --> 00:36:21,116
And if it weren't,
Condé Nast would have done it.

775
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,619
It was a huge risk.

776
00:36:23,660 --> 00:36:25,787
That fearlessness
is what drove him

777
00:36:25,871 --> 00:36:29,917
throughout his adult life,
ultimately to his detriment.

778
00:36:36,048 --> 00:36:39,134
[ Indistinct conversations ]

779
00:36:39,218 --> 00:36:41,678
The 1980s and 1990s in New York

780
00:36:41,762 --> 00:36:43,847
were great times
to be in the magazine business.

781
00:36:43,931 --> 00:36:45,474
I mean, there's nothing
that could touch

782
00:36:45,557 --> 00:36:48,977
what magazines could do.
They drove the culture.

783
00:36:49,061 --> 00:36:51,772
Gillon: So, just when John
and Michael think it's over,

784
00:36:51,813 --> 00:36:56,151
and this dream they have of
creating this magazine is dead,

785
00:36:56,235 --> 00:36:58,403
they meet a guy
named David Pecker,

786
00:36:58,487 --> 00:37:00,489
who was then the CEO
of Hachette.

787
00:37:00,572 --> 00:37:04,034
So, at Hachette, we don't shy
away from taking chances.

788
00:37:04,117 --> 00:37:07,996
A magazine launch is
a commitment from a company

789
00:37:08,038 --> 00:37:09,790
in the upwards of $20 million.

790
00:37:09,831 --> 00:37:14,419
Pecker was the kind of guy
who John avoided his whole life.

791
00:37:14,503 --> 00:37:17,506
I'm sure glad
I picked up the check.

792
00:37:17,589 --> 00:37:21,677
Andersen: David Pecker
was a funny figure in my eyes,

793
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:26,306
a diminutive man in a mustache
and a big smile.

794
00:37:26,348 --> 00:37:28,016
He was a hustler

795
00:37:28,100 --> 00:37:31,520
and years later was involved
with the National Enquirer.

796
00:37:31,603 --> 00:37:34,815
And he was not top-drawer

797
00:37:34,856 --> 00:37:37,192
in terms
of the publishing industry.

798
00:37:37,234 --> 00:37:40,904
I mean,
David was a complicated person.

799
00:37:40,988 --> 00:37:43,031
Um, you know, I can't lie

800
00:37:43,115 --> 00:37:46,451
and say that it wasn't part
of it was the allure of John.

801
00:37:46,535 --> 00:37:49,705
You know, I guess the Kennedy
thing didn't hurt, okay?

802
00:37:49,788 --> 00:37:50,622
[ Chuckles ]

803
00:37:50,706 --> 00:37:52,666
But I think David also

804
00:37:52,708 --> 00:37:54,751
was entrepreneurial enough

805
00:37:54,835 --> 00:37:58,130
to understand a good idea
when it was pitched to him.

806
00:37:58,213 --> 00:38:01,216
Ginsberg: Hachette said yes.
It was really exciting.

807
00:38:01,300 --> 00:38:02,759
You know, it wasn't ideal.

808
00:38:02,843 --> 00:38:05,012
They didn't have any history
of publishing

809
00:38:05,053 --> 00:38:08,557
a first-rate, high-quality
political magazine.

810
00:38:09,933 --> 00:38:12,019
It wasn't Condé Nast.

811
00:38:12,060 --> 00:38:13,645
Put it that way.

812
00:38:13,729 --> 00:38:15,772
Gillon: So, what happens is,
day one,

813
00:38:15,856 --> 00:38:17,566
you know they meet with
the editorial director,

814
00:38:17,649 --> 00:38:20,485
who says they're gonna change
the name of the magazine

815
00:38:20,569 --> 00:38:22,404
to Crisscross.

816
00:38:22,487 --> 00:38:25,615
And John's like --
John was furious.

817
00:38:25,699 --> 00:38:28,076
And they also told him that,
you know,

818
00:38:28,118 --> 00:38:30,329
Hachette always wanted George

819
00:38:30,412 --> 00:38:33,498
to be essentially
a celebrity fan club,

820
00:38:33,582 --> 00:38:36,084
with John as the main celebrity.

821
00:38:36,126 --> 00:38:39,963
John's a passive guy,
but he was furious.

822
00:38:40,047 --> 00:38:42,924
And he went up to David Pecker's
office, and he said,

823
00:38:43,008 --> 00:38:44,676
"We're done.

824
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,429
This relationship
isn't gonna work."

825
00:38:47,471 --> 00:38:49,598
Eventually, Pecker backed down.

826
00:38:49,681 --> 00:38:52,267
But this was a constant
source of tension

827
00:38:52,309 --> 00:38:53,977
throughout the life
of the magazine.

828
00:38:55,395 --> 00:38:57,898
Radziwill: At that time, he was
really focused on the magazine,

829
00:38:57,939 --> 00:39:00,108
and Carolyn was really focused
on the magazine.

830
00:39:00,150 --> 00:39:02,277
I feel like it was
just as much her baby

831
00:39:02,319 --> 00:39:03,570
as it was his, in a way.

832
00:39:03,612 --> 00:39:06,114
Like, she was definitely
a driving force

833
00:39:06,198 --> 00:39:08,450
in keeping him focused
and keeping him out

834
00:39:08,492 --> 00:39:13,872
of the side circus shows that he
could have gotten involved in.

835
00:39:14,998 --> 00:39:17,292
Ginsberg: She was fiercely
protective of him.

836
00:39:17,376 --> 00:39:18,835
She was always saying to him,

837
00:39:18,919 --> 00:39:21,088
"John, you're being taken
advantage of by X,"

838
00:39:21,129 --> 00:39:23,507
or, "You're being played by Y."

839
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,843
Radziwill: She made him feel,

840
00:39:26,927 --> 00:39:28,470
probably more than anyone
in his life,

841
00:39:28,553 --> 00:39:30,263
that he could be his own person,

842
00:39:30,305 --> 00:39:35,519
he didn't have to follow
what people expected of him.

843
00:39:35,602 --> 00:39:36,978
Of course, the magazine --

844
00:39:37,020 --> 00:39:40,565
that was a real departure
from anything

845
00:39:40,649 --> 00:39:43,652
anyone in his family
had done before.

846
00:39:43,693 --> 00:39:47,406
It was a really physically
and emotionally taxing time.

847
00:39:47,489 --> 00:39:51,701
John lost -- I don't know --
like 30 pounds, 20 pounds.

848
00:39:51,785 --> 00:39:54,788
I don't remember exactly.

849
00:39:54,830 --> 00:39:57,499
We wanted to prove
the doubters wrong.

850
00:39:58,917 --> 00:40:01,753
Also, he was carrying
around a ring.

851
00:40:02,879 --> 00:40:05,006
When you're John,
you know, it's a big step.

852
00:40:05,048 --> 00:40:08,009
He knows it's gonna have,
you know, major implications.

853
00:40:10,720 --> 00:40:13,098
Radziwill: They were
in the vineyard, and he, um...

854
00:40:14,683 --> 00:40:17,519
I think it was kind of
a surprise for her.

855
00:40:21,064 --> 00:40:22,816
She called me.

856
00:40:22,858 --> 00:40:24,693
They had just gotten back
to New York,

857
00:40:24,776 --> 00:40:27,446
and she said
that John had proposed

858
00:40:27,529 --> 00:40:30,866
with a ring that his mother
had called her swimming ring,

859
00:40:30,949 --> 00:40:34,035
and it was a band
of sapphires and diamonds.

860
00:40:35,871 --> 00:40:38,874
She was happy, but nervous.

861
00:40:38,915 --> 00:40:41,501
She didn't want to tell anyone.

862
00:40:41,543 --> 00:40:44,463
Interviewer: Why?

863
00:40:44,546 --> 00:40:45,922
Because both within the family

864
00:40:46,006 --> 00:40:48,258
and then, obviously
for them publicly,

865
00:40:48,341 --> 00:40:51,887
it just became --
it became something else.

866
00:40:54,806 --> 00:40:58,059
Everyone started hearing
about it and started realizing,

867
00:40:58,101 --> 00:41:02,481
"Oh, she's just not just another
girl that he's hanging out with.

868
00:41:02,564 --> 00:41:04,399
Like, he's really serious.

869
00:41:04,483 --> 00:41:05,942
He's gonna marry her."

870
00:41:06,026 --> 00:41:08,236
And there was
a higher expectation, I think,

871
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:10,030
even in the family.

872
00:41:10,071 --> 00:41:13,658
She wanted to stave that off,
I think, as long as possible.

873
00:41:13,742 --> 00:41:15,535
Woman: Hi.
Yeah, my question --

874
00:41:15,577 --> 00:41:16,912
I'm just sitting around with
a bunch of friends tonight,

875
00:41:16,995 --> 00:41:19,039
and we're curious to see, um,

876
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,166
how John proposed to Carolyn.

877
00:41:21,249 --> 00:41:23,502
News anchor: Liz, I'll give you
that question.

878
00:41:23,585 --> 00:41:25,670
I wish I knew.

879
00:41:25,754 --> 00:41:28,215
There's a kind of frenzy
around this.

880
00:41:28,256 --> 00:41:31,426
I think it's great.
Everyone should be happy.

881
00:41:31,468 --> 00:41:34,179
Wright Rigueur: The world's
most eligible bachelor

882
00:41:34,262 --> 00:41:35,805
is off the market,

883
00:41:35,889 --> 00:41:39,851
but it's still about America's
3-year-old growing up,

884
00:41:39,935 --> 00:41:43,313
about him moving on
into the next phase of his life.

885
00:41:43,396 --> 00:41:45,815
And when you introduce
a woman into that...

886
00:41:45,899 --> 00:41:47,526
Man
Johns on the way?

887
00:41:47,609 --> 00:41:49,319
Man
you. Can you look over?

888
00:41:49,402 --> 00:41:54,407
...that's going to spark
an insane level of curiosity.

889
00:41:54,449 --> 00:41:56,493
Who is she?
What makes her tick?

890
00:41:56,576 --> 00:41:58,620
Why is she so special?


